The Girl with a Big Smile but Even Bigger Heart

People always come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

When someone is in your life for a REASON,
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
Or to provide you with guidance and support,
To aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
This person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they just walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON,
It is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.

They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall,
The season eventually ends.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
Those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person anyway;
And put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being part of my life,
Whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

I’m too attached… I love him too much. I need to be with him every second…and I’m not just saying that. When I’m not with him I get almost depressed. Its like I need to declare my love for him every second. I need his attention and affection 24/7. No matter how long I spend with him its never enough because when he leaves I’m left feeling empty again. I don’t want to do anything other that lie in his arms. If I had it my way I would do nothing else with my life. I’m not exaggerating or just saying this…I really really would. No matter how many times he tells me he loves me its never enough… I’m still scared he’s going to get up and leave. I feel like I’m running out of time. Like things are just going to suddenly change. What is wrong with me??

I’m ready for a change…I’m ready for a new challenge. I can’t wait to finally spread my wings and be independent. It might sound mean but I’m ready to leave my family and friends. But I’m not ready to leave him. I feel like I’m running out of time with him…like he’s just going to disappear and I’ll be left with nothing but memories

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